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Just got back today from my visit to the "Grove", or Spring Grove, MN. Had a nice visit with aunts. Spent the night, which I wasn't intending to do, but worked out well. I hadn't had the opportunity to chat with either of them much in the last year or so. Yesterday, before I left, Sandra and I took a ride down to Rooster Valley where much of our family farmed for many years. The house they lived in down there is falling in, and the land is owned by some one else. I did some trespassing, and climbed the fence to take a few photos. It was absolutely beautiful down there. No noise, not even birds. Just snow and cold. I had never had a chance to visit the Valley in the winter. I cannot imagine how my grandparents did it in the winter time down there. Charm pointed out that one year it snowed so much that they could only see the very top of the barn in the back where Grandpa didn't shovel it out. That's major!

Woke up with a cold yesterday morning, so made a detour to spend the night at the folks. Played with the dog and took mom to work this morning. Then, did a little shopping for some new work clothes. Yep, I said work clothes. I accepted a new position this morning and I start on Feb. 17. I'm nervous, but I think I made the right decision. Thanks to Mike, Pat, Mom, Dad & Barry for their helpful and encouraging words.

As Mike indicated on his blog, we are going to see Miracle tomorrow. Tonight at the Xcel Center, they unveiled the new Herb Brooks statue. It's the pose of him with his hands in the air as they won that miracle game. What was cool was that his son Dan gave a speech tonight, and he wore plaid pants like his Dad did in those years. Funny. We're really looking forward to our big hockey weekend. (or weekends I should say.)

Congrats to Alissa and Pat for an amazing school project! I would say that Alissa with her art skills may have a career path blooming. Pat, where were you when I needed help on school projects? Just kidding. I never had cool assignments like that one.

Sorry for the delay in posting. Much has been going on.

Still working on the job front. As of right now, I should be writing cover letters, but I'm being a little bit of a procrastinator this evening. Oh well.

I had a job interview last Monday that went well. 2 freaking hour with 6 people. Now, if that doesn't get old fast then I don't know what was. I knew one of the 6, worked with her at TM. She said I came across very professionally and answered all the questions. Just not sure if I want to go back to public health as well as doing the job I applied for. We'll see. I have another interview for Friday that is with an organization called Elder Care at home. It's basically working with the elderly and coming in to help them out with stuff: cleaning, groceries, visiting. It's only PT, but I thought I might do it awhile to get some money coming in. Another we'll see.

Last week I drove down to Rochester on Tuesday. I was planning on going south to visit the relies, but the weather wasn't good. Instead, mom took a half day off and we went to the Grandparents. We had a nice day. Grandpa was at a doctors appointment, so we only saw him for a little bit. Otherwise, we hung out with Grandma. I cleaned for them, while Mom and Grandma did some sorting of their extra bedroom. You wouldn't believe the things they save. Grandpa has a brown polyester leisure suit in PRISTINE condition. His response? "that was a darn nice suit. I just outgrew it a bit." Grandma has practically every winter coat she's ever owned, including some really cool vintage ones from the 50's. She also still has her fake fur coat that Grandpa bought for her in the 80's. Hilarious. Grandma seemed to enjoy sorting through stuff. Once you jogged her memory, she seemed to remember more. She still struggles with being dizzy, tired and shaky. I know her Altzheimers place a role, but the meds she is on for it also are a part of the deal. I just wish we could get her a better quality of life. Her comment was sad. "I never thought I'd end up just sitting here staring at the wall. And I never thought my house would need someone else to clean it." Food for thought.

Visted Pam and Charlie one night and had Pam in stiches telling her about the movie Jackass. She will have to rent it. Thursday I went to see Sue at the Crosstich Shop. They are going out of business at the end of this month-it sucks cuz it's a great business. Just too costly of a lease. Otherwise, I just hung out with the dog during the day and visited with my dad on the phone for a few hours too.

I just finished reading The Da Vinci Code this morning. Everyone is reading it, and I knew I had to as well when I read the subject matter. PHENOMENAL book. It's really a page turner and keeps you guessing at every moment. Historical fact mixed in with a mystery. I've got some more research I want to do now. Mary Magdalene the wife of Jesus? Being Catholic, raised a certain way, this stuff is so intriguing. Without getting into things further, I'm very glad I read this book. I highly recommend not only this one but Religion for Dummies as well.

Watched the Super Bowl a bit. Nothing major. Saw Janet lose her top. So stupid that the FCC has got to get involved. Whatever. Made for interesting show. Great game as well.

Friday night we went over to Matt and Jill's. Sam is now 3 months old and growing like a weed. He's smiling now and making lots of cooing noises. Watched him get a bath which he just loved. Matt's parents were driving up from Oshkosh and we wanted to visit with them. Great people-super nice. They arrived around 11pm and see we chatted with them until 1am. Poor Jill had been up with Sam the night before so she looked like she was going to drop. Thankfully, Grandma McMillen said she'd get up with Sam in the night. Jill has decided to be a stay at home mom for now. They're only young once, and if you can do it, I say go for it. I advocate both-just depends on the person. I have no idea how I will be when the time comes.

Leaving for Spring Grove in the morning to visit my 2 aunties down there. I haven't been down since August, so I thought as long as I have the time, I should go. They feel a little abandoned since Grandma died and no one is making as many visits. Then I think I'll try to visit a friend or two in Rochester. Make my rounds and be back by Thursday night I think. Mom is working the crappy late shift until 7pm, so she won't be around much.


Survivor last night anyone? I haven't watched it since Australian Outback, but it was fun to see the all stars come back. Gotta love Rudy and Rupert.

Okay, so I'm now unemployed.

Glorious? Well, not really. Not yet anyway. I've caught up on sleep, reading, knitting, and I am now in the process of completing bulldozing our den and throwing everything I haven't looked at in the last year in the garbage. I went through an entire box of cassette tapes last night. What do you do with old tapes? I realized that most of the ones I really liked I've bought on CD. I threw out a ton, but saved about a box of them. Some I just want to save. A good example: On Christmas Eve we had to explain to my younger cousins (Hannah, Grace and Tyler) what LP's and 45's were. They had no clue. They Grace says, "Oh, I think I've maybe seen one."

I own more books then a small town library. This is not a bad thing. It just makes storage a problem. I swear that when I have my own home, I am making a library out of one room.

We also bought a DVD Storage Unit. We already own, like, 100 Videos. DVD's are creeping into the 30's and 40's. Mike had the lovely task of putting the thing together, a cheap sauder deal from Office Max. Let's just say it was a lot harder then it looked. But, it has a place in the living room now and looks pretty good. I also purchased a few more Rubbermaid Tubs and a truly ugly, but cool pair of shoes. Mike says they look like bowling shoes, and if you've seen the ones that are making the current fashion go round, you'll know what he's talking about. I swore I wouldn't buy a pair, but they were $5 at Target and they did look cool. As my niece Alissa would say, "Aunt Kristin, you're almost cool." Hey, it's better then not being cool at all.

I am reading Hearts of Atlantis by Stephen King this week. It's different, and I'm still not quite sure how it will all come together (short stories) but it's interesting. I'm dying to read The DaVinci Code, but I have to see if I can get Barry to loan it up before he reads it himself.

I also discovered by favorite Dr. Seuss book tucked away in a tub. It's called: A Fish Out of Water. And yes Pat, I wrote in it and one it with my name. It was a sickness, I say. But this one does not have any pages ripped out of it. I must have reserved that feature just for your books. Nonetheless, this is an excellent book about teaching children how much food you should give to your gold fish.

Friday is the funeral of my Uncle's Charlie's mother. She passed away last Friday. The funeral is at noon, so I'll be taxing over my mom, aunt Linda, and Uncle Dave. I feel bad for Charlie-he's had a tough few years of losing his loved ones.

Last, I am now a fan of Napster again. I did my first paying download of $.99 and bought the single "Hey Ya" by Outkast. I can handle this price and it goes right on my hard drive and I can do whatever the hell I want with it. The Napster Card is now finally in effect. I looked long and hard for it before Christmas after reading the Newsweek article about it (15 songs for $15 on a card) but they did not introduce it until this month. I think I'll buy it. Anyone have any words on portable MP3 players? I have yet to check one out anywhere and I'm wicked curious to know if they're cool. (I'm a little behind the times in this area).

Pat- how's Project X?

Belated Happy Holidays to all and I hope they were enjoyed.

A couple of my highlights were : Season 1 of Little House on the Prairie on DVD. (I have wanted something like this for so long, I just couldn't believe it. My husband rocks. And by the way, I'm a nut for that show. I've seen every episode at least twice. I cried when Michael Landon died.)

Also received on DVD: It's a Wonderful Life, Miracle on 34th Street, The Poseidon Adventure, and Say Anything.

Books: many. Cash by Johnny Cash (just finished it-very good), An Elvis Scrapbook, a book on writing, another on Archiving and Saving old photographs, plus some others I'm blanking on.

Picture of Johnny Cash, in his younger days, flipping off the camera. Dad found it on the internet for me.

A new game called Tri-Bond. We have not played it yet, but it lists three things that sound unrelatable, and then you have to figure out what they have in common. Easy Example: Polar, Black, Grizzly= bears

Many cool Elvis things. And some nifty Coca-Cola items, including an antique crate that the bottles would be stored in.

And, our new digital camera that we purchased just a few days before Christmas was a blast in itself. Took a ton of pictures. Hopefully I'll have a website up soon to upload some of them to.

New Year's Eve was quiet. We went to our friend's Gabe and Shanda's, however their 4 year old Tyler suddenly felt horrible, his ear hurt, so Shanda and I trucked him to the ER at 9pm. Ear infection, so it was 11pm before we got back. Watched the ball drop and went home.

I'm still at the job. Tomorrow is supposed to be the last day. They are playing games. I just want out.

We watched Bruce Almighty on Friday night. Okay movie. Not great, but there were some memorable moments. It did drag on at times. One movie we are watching frequently on the movie channel is Two Weeks Notice with Sandra Bullock and Hugh Grant. Hilarious. Two of my favorite actors these days.

Might I point out the movie Serendipity? It came out a year or so ago with Kate Beckinsale and Joh Cusack (of course Jeremy Piven has a role). It's a darn fine John Cusack at his best movie.

Spent the weekend up north celebrating the Lemke Christmas. Lots of Fun.

Nephew Alex was the winner, hands down, for the total amount of presents. Only grandchild. You can imagine. He kept saying stuff like, "OHHHHH!" He didn't rip into the presents, but enjoyed looking through them. The clothes he received were just thrown aside.

Clothes are no fun when you are almost 2!

I received a wicked cool pair of Sorel Boots. I have the worlds poorest circulation in my feet and can spent a short period of time outside before my feet feel like I'm going to lose them. My father-in-law has said since day one that I needed a good pair of boots for snowmobiling. (Or 'bile' as Alex calls it!) These are good to -40 below. Comfortable and warm. I'm set!

Mike received the Lord of the Rings and Two Towers DVD sets. He did go see the latest edition in the theaters last week and said it was very good. I'm not into the trilogy so I haven't asked a lot of questions. He is currently watching the extras on the DVD's. I think they each came with like 4-5 DVD's a piece. Holy Crap.

The highlight of today is that we finally bought a digital camera! A Fuji Fine Pix A210. I like it so far. Mike is threatening to take inappropriate pictures. 'Nuff said. Can we say DELETE?

The rest of my week at work has been yucky. However, the boss now makes it a point to say good morning and good night to me each day since I gave notice. He never bothered to do that much before! It's a very long and tiring story. I hope that I can find a job I like. I'm so tired of this.

I'm starting to feel like a little kid again. Only 3 more days until Christmas Eve!

Just remember: "No man is a failure that has friends." But what Pat and I are wondering is whether or not Mr. Potter ever gives the money back! And Pat is really wondering why the hell Uncle Billy doesn't fess up and take responsiblity for his actions!!! Face it, Mr. Potter should have had the shit kicked out of him by Mr. Martini or something. Don't you think? Or maybe Harry Bailey since he was the big war hero!

Alternate endings anyone?

I quit my job yesterday.

Not fun. But, I made my point and said the things I was feeling. Was asked to stay, I said no.

I am not relieved quite yet, but hopefully it will set in soon.

Sorry about the lack of posting. Holidays are upon us.

We had nice Thanksgiving. Mike went to his parents, I went to mine. I had dinner with mom's family at Pam & Charlies. Poor Charlie had to work his last night shift at the hospital and didn't get home until 8am. Tyler woke him at 1pm just as we sat down to eat. He was happy that he no longer has to work those shifts anymore!

Great food, good turkey. I made the Pumpkin Pie the night before with my brother giving me crap on the phone through my mother. I have now officially ranked #2 in the family for the best Pumpkin Pie. Grandma is still #1. Sure wish I knew what she had done to make hers so good!

After hanging out there for awhile, I ran over to my dad's side of the family to visit with them. Unfortunately, I missed my grandparents by just an hour. It's difficult for them to be away from home at any great length. I ended up hanging out at Uncle Mike's house until 10pm ! I had not visited with many of my cousins and my aunt and uncle in almost a year. My aunt Sue also taught me how to knit! Uncle Tom kept asking WHY I wanted to learn this-Uncle Mike asked why I didn't just go buy a scarf. :) I think it's a valuable tool to know and I'm excited to keep going. It's a bit funky looking, but it's actually quite relaxing.

Friday I hung out with my mom most of the day. We didn't really do much-just took it easy. Then I went out to my dad's in the afternoon and visited with him for quite awhile. Later that night I did some late night shopping with my cousin Sara and we were both able to take care of a lot of our Christmas shopping. It was awesome being there so late!

Saturday I hung out at home again, and knitted. Matt and Tiffiny came down to celebrate Mom and Barry's birthdays. We went to Timber Lodge. Good food, nice time. Hopefully Mom and Barry enjoyed being treated to a dinner and gifts. It sure seemed like they liked it! It's cool to finally be able to afford paying for a meal after all these years of your parents taking you out. It was a pleasure to split the bill with Matt.

Work is a bit insane this week. Just gets busier and weirder by the minute. I was sick on Tuesday, but felt so guilty that I came in later in the afternoon. I'm thinking my flu shot did the trick at keeping things at bay. I've just felt a little bit yucky for a few days, but able to get pushing through. I sincerely hope that I did the right thing by getting it. First time-but after how sick I was at this time last year, I can't afford to go through that again.

Still looking on the job front. Have a headhunter. Getting a decent start anyway.

This weekend is nothing major. The tree is up, so I'm going to wrap Christmas presents and get that taken care of. Mike is going to a Christmas party in Duluth at his buddies' house. I usually go, but just not in the mood this year. I'm sure he'll have more fun without worrying about me and if I have people to talk to!

Two new shows we are liking: The Tracy Morgan Show (so far...) and Viva La Bam on MTV. Last night's episodes of Scrubs and Will & Grace were to die for funny. I haven't laughed like that for a long time.

I was out Christmas shopping last weekend at an outlet mall, and at the toy store I found a small Hermie the Elf key chain for $1.99. I came close to buying it for you Lally. But, I'll let your typo go by this time.

Yes, I was Christmas Shopping. I am about half way finished and am trying like mad to get done before Thanksgiving. I do not enjoy Christmas shopping and do not care for Christmas all that much. I hate crowds. Online shopping is very helpful. I am trying to save money this year and am making a few gifts. I just finished a 'no-sew' fleece blanket for my nephew. It's not perfect, but it'll work. I'm going to try my hand at a pillow tomorrow, while finishing up my latch hook rug of Santa. As my friend Jill & I coined our craft attempts "butt-ugly crafts" you can imagine how simple these projects have to be for me. I am going to attempt to learn to knit in a few weeks when I am home for Thanksgiving.

Mike is off deer hunting again this weekend. Second weekend in a row of being home alone. I am getting stuff accomplished as well as relaxing a bit. I haven't done a lot today due to feeling like crap. I'm having some medication adjustments and it leaves me feeling like I'm coming off an addiction. I've spent some quality time on the couch let's just say today.

Saw Matt & Jill's baby again last weekend. His nickname is 'Sammy the Bull' after a mobster. It's appropriate and cute cuz he's just a little guy. But in the week time span since I had last seen him, he had filled out. Technically, he wasn't supposed to arrive until next Tuesday! They are certainly enjoying him and seem to be settling in quite nicely. I'll admit I am moving closer to that direction of having a kid soon, but not there just yet.

Off to finish a few projects on the computer tonight...

And may I saw welcome and Uff Da to you Pat for joining the Sons of Norway.

May I just make a brief correction to you, Lally?

It's Hermie, the elf, not Herbie, who wants to be a dentist.

I take this very seriously. I have a mug in the shape of Hermie's head.

Okay, I suck for not posting for exactly a month straight. Sorry.

Just got back to town after being out since Tuesday at Mike's grandma's funeral. Obviously, not the way you would like the time off, but it was nice to visit with family. Mike's Grandma was a really cool lady and will be missed. My fondest memory (and first impression) of her was when I met her not long after Mike and I were began dating. She was wearing a) a pink windsuit b) had well manicured nails with funky nail polish and c) she wore tons of cool rings. Neither of my grandmothers wore anything like this, so she seemed to be a 'young' grandma. She was buried just that way-with her nails painted and rings on her fingers. We'll miss her a lot.

It's been quite the week besides the funeral-Matt & Jill had a baby boy on Sunday, October 26. He was three weeks early and very unexpected! Samuel Benjamin McMillen, 5lbs 2 oz, 18 1/2 inches. He's a little guy, but sure is cute. Mom & Dad are doing great, but are sleep deprived. It's been a tough week getting adjusted at home. He's had jaundice, so has been in each day to the clinic. Otherwise, he eats all the time, poops immediately, and then pees on them when they change him! I enjoyed holding him last night a lot. Mikey took a turn as well!

Also went to visit Miss Ava Butler, who is now 2 months old. She is just the opposite of Sam-she weighs about 11 lbs now and is a cute little chub. Mike says I'm getting baby fever.

Alex, the nephew, was a big hit all week. He likes being the center of attention and is a big ham. He learned a phrase that will come back to bite us all in the butt. His mom said something about the 'god damn pretzels' and what did he say? "God damn pretzel." I know you're not supposed to laugh, but I couldn't help it. Thankfully he only said it once. On Friday he was pestering me in the bathroom while I was getting ready, so I took a little hair gel and spiked his hair into a mohawk. He had a little flannel shirt and jeans on, so he looked like a little dude. We laughed so hard at him, that he started laughing at himself and was very pleased with all the attention! He's a lot of fun and really loves his Uncle Mike and Auntie Kristin. It sure makes me feel good that when I put my arms out and say come see me, he puts his arms up and jumps right in.

Tonight, Charlie and Tyler are staying over. They went to the Gopher game with Mike today, and then Tyler is making his Metrodome debut in the morning playing football in the Rochester Youth Football All-Star Game! We're excited. He's been studying his plays tonight while we watched TV.

Nothing too exciting besides those items has happened. Spent some time in Rochester last weekend, and visited with my grandparents. Mike and I both got new cell phones this week-switched to better coverage and better phones. We are both of fond of our new flip phones.

Back to work on Monday. I'm sure being gone most of the week will make for fun conversation with the boss!

Exactly 7 years ago this past Sunday, Mike & I met and went out together. On that very day, my niece Paige was turning 1 year old. I remember distinctly chatting with Mike at the bar and saying, "Today is my niece's first birthday!" He probably could have cared less (just kidding!) but I didn't know what else to talk to him about. Then I mentioned hockey and we had plenty to say then.

On Tuesday of next week, we will have been married 3 years. Seems like yesterday. I sure miss the days of college and all the fun we had together. I was just reminiscing with my old roommate Jill about the day Paige was born. She and our friends were just as excited as I was! The week prior we all jumped up when the phone rang thinking it would be Pat. Of course when he actually did call, we didn't think it was him. I remember I posted on my dry erase board hanging on our dorm room door : "I'm an aunt today!" Then, we drove to Shopko and bought her an outfit. :) Can you tell how exciting it was ?

I'm very lucky to say that I met my husband on the night of niece's birthday. Makes it all the more special.

1 year ago Monday, the 29th, my grandmother passed away. It's hard to believe she's been gone that long. We all miss her so much and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of her. She was an amazing person and I sure wish I could be more like her! It's difficult losing grandparents. I have to say that it's going to be a really hard day when the time comes for my other 2 grandparents.

Pat and I were emailing about how we can remember the sounds and smells of our grandparents house so clearly. The back door had a sound to it when it closed, very distinct. The front door had another type of sound to it. The house was always so inviting and comforting. The kitchen was always ready for anything: a visit, something to eat, play a game at the table, have the whole family together. I can close my eyes and still see myself sitting at the table, wet hair and fresh smelling from taking a bath. I'd have my jammies on and I would be eating Velveeta cheese on saltine crackers, with a glass of Tang. MMM. Can still taste it. I'd look at old pictures, or play Uncle Wiggly with Grandma. Sometimes I'd color, or draw. Other times Grandma would get out the letters from when her sons were away in the army.

In the summertime, the windows would be open. Pat would be outback letting off fireworks. Sometimes the old Tom cat would come into the yard and cause a ruckus. I remember Grandpa and Pat with a beebee gun shooting at it up in the tree. The music from 'over town' (as we called the Supper Club across the street) would be getting louder. Dad would already be over there playing in the band or hanging out. Mom, Uncle Mike & Sue were getting dressed to head over there. Then Pat & I could gleefully have Grandpa and Grandma to ourselves as we watched Lawrence Welk, Three's Company or The Love Boat. (Barney Miller was a favorite too). If it was a Friday night, Grandpa would head to bed at 10:30, after the news, but Grandma would stay up to watch Johnny Carson. However, if Joan Rivers was subbing for him, she turned it off and went to bed. She always let us stay up and watch with her. Popcorn or Ice Cream were a great evening treat.

Pat mentioned that he can remember their place almost more then our own house. I agree. Perhaps it's because we felt the safest and most loved while spending time there. It was really my most favorite place in the world to be. Burr Oak, Iowa. A very lovely little town.

To quote my newspaper writing Dad: Random thoughts from a cluttered mind...

Took the day off today to recoup. I'll pay the piper on Monday. I will either be fired or will quit. I can't quite decide what will happen.

I honestly don't know what the hell to do with my life sometimes. Is this common in your late twenties? Or is it something that plagues you forever?

Two important purchases tonight: 16 Greatest Hits of Johnny Cash (with us songs as I Walk the LIne, Ring of Fire, Folsom Prison Blues, and A Boy Named Sue.) Second purchase: the single Rubberneckin' by Elvis with the Paul Oakenfold REMIX. have you heard it on the Toyota commercial?

MIke is in New Richmond, WI tonight at a football game with Gabe. Gabe is the assistant coach of the hs football team, and it's homecoming, so he invited Mike down to hang out on the sidelines. Mike misses football so much these days that I think it's really good for him.

Tomorrow, my mom and Barry are coming up. Barry has a board meeting at the History Center, so Mom's just going to tag along. I convinced them to bring TJ along too. I miss my dog.

On Sunday we are going to the Vikings-49ers game at the Dome. My first NFL game! I've been to a NHL game (Wild), NBA (Timberwolves), MBL (Twins and others), Soccer (DC United) so it's about time. My last big conquer will be NASCAR. Since Mike is a niners fan, we'll be on opposite sides. Not the first time! I promise I won't paint my face purple and gold. But I'll probably do some screaming! (I am considering the purchase of the horns with braids on them to wear).

Sunday is also the 7th anniversary of the day Mike & I met and went out. It is also Paige's 8th birthday. Hard to believe both. October 7th we'll have been married 3 years. When do you become the old married couple?

Writing class was a little less exciting this week. However, the creative juices get flowing so much that I come out of there with tons of ideas. Everyone is so supportive and in the same position as you, which really creates a great environment. My friend Terri said in an email that she wants a book dedicated to her. I told her I haven't gotten that far yet.

Haven't had time to post this past couple weeks-working marathon hours at work. Our catalog goes to the printer today. Hallelujah! I can't say that enough. I went to bed at 9:30pm last night and slept until 8am this morning. Still isn't enough sleep in the day for me to recover from the caffeine I've had to suck down to keep on going on. I'm learning to deal with the boss. Not saying it's going well, but I am learning to deal. Came close to walking out last week when I was here at 10pm accomplishing NOTHING because of his anal tendencies. But, I kept my cool. The f word flew a few times on my end, however he did apologize for the 'stress' of the work lately. The I proceeded to work all weekend. That's 3 Friday nights in a row that have involved work. I think it's going to come to the point where I need to say, "This company may be your entire life, but it is NOT mine." What do you think? :)

Started my writing classes last week. They are AWESOME! But I haven't had time to do my homework, go figure!

One more quote about Johnny Cash. His daughter, Roseanne, delivered his eulogy and said the following: "I can almost picture a world without Johnny Cash. I cannot, however, imagine a world without daddy."

How poignant.

There is a poem that starts out like this: "Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep."

For Johnny Cash, he'll never die. Not to me or millions of others. Driving tonight on I-94 to Minneapolis I saw a sheet hanging over the overpass. Thinking it was left over from 9/11 yesterday, I glanced up. It said, "You'll always be a legend Johnny Cash."

MSNBC is asking fans to submit their favorite Johnny stories and I was amazed at the wide range of age groups that were posting. My favorite Johnny Cash story is this, as related to me by my mom.

In the late 1970's, my dad was an Entertainment columnist for the Rochester Post-Bulletin. He did a lot of great columns about music, especially country, which was his favorite. Say nothing of the man in black. Dad set up an interview with Cash, and he was set to call our house at a specific time. The phone rings, and my mom answers it. She hears in a loud, booming baritone: "This is Johnny Cash. May I speak to Steve Webb?" My mom puts her hand over the phone, jumping up and down, and says in a loud whisper: "STEVE! It's JOHNNY CASH!" Guess where Dad was? In the bathroom. Dad yells, "I'm in the crapper!" Mom was mortified. But, Dad did the interview and guess what? He said Johnny Cash was just as cool as you'd expect him to be.

Do you remember that, Pat?

I can't say how glad I am that I purchased his last CD in August. And I'm saddened to realize that the outlaws are getting old. Waylon's gone, now Johnny. Willie's hitting 70. These men were a vital part of my musical influence as a child. One of the very first songs I learned to play on my guitar at age 7 was Folsom Prison Blues. I guess it's just hard to let them go. It truly is feeling like you've lost a grandpa.

John Ritter was a shocker. Having been a big Three's Company fan, and a fan of his new show, it's another sad one for me.

Johnny Cash's death for me is kind of like when Michael Landon died. I watched Little House on the Prairie for more then 75% of my life. He was a father figure to me because Pa could solve anything. As TV guide suggested," When he died a very public death from cancer, we all felt like we'd lost a family member. After all, who had spent more good times with us in our living room?" That's the best way I can sum up the loss of Johnny Cash.

Fall is approaching. It might be 90 degrees in St. Paul today, but that feeling is in the air.

Kids are back in school, traffic on the Interstate sucks, Vikings-Packer game yesterday (hot damn, we won) and hockey is on it's way. When my husband says to feel sorry for me, he means it. I have accumulated many hobbies in the past 2 years since he began watching NHL Center Ice coverage of the Penguins. Good for me, good for him.

In a little over a week I begin my writing classes that I signed up for. I'm really excited and looking forward to the experience. The writing thing is beckoning me in many ways and I hope to spend the winter working towards becoming a more creative non fiction writer. Must run in the blood of the Webb clan. Maybe it's that William Shakespeare connection?

I had my review at work on Friday for my 90 days. Didn't hear anything bad, which is always a plus. I know I'm a good worker. I just have a major personality clash with my boss, I believe. Today solidified that. I honestly can't decide if this place is worth sticking around for or if I'm just banging my head against the wall. If I was able to do my job without all the contact I have with him, I wouldn't mind it so much. However, we need to buy a house and that is the defining factor here. The money is inherently more important at this point in my life. I'm sitting tonight out on the deck reading in my mom's Good Housekeeping magazine about this killer jobs that people have that are so fullfilling and fun. Does such a job exist? I know all jobs are not perfect, but to actually enjoy going to work would be interesting. Or not even to enjoy, but to not dread it? I guess that's the question of the year for anyone. Answers? I'm willing to listen to anything.

Mike purchased Madden 2004 today. I think it's safe to say he is quite excited.

Our friends Andy and Janelle Butler had a baby girl on Thursday, September 4. 9lbs 7oz-Ava Sophia Butler. Janelle was quite large when I saw her 3 weeks ago, so it was no surprise the baby was as big as she was. It sounds like they are really excited.

Mike is in his friend's wedding this weekend here in St. Paul. His parents are coming down on Saturday to attend, so we're looking forward to having them and enjoying the wedding. We don't know many people, but I always like a good wedding dance whether I know people or not!

Congratulations to Pat's tribute to David Letterman. Did Mr. Urda happen to catch the show? I can only imagine how funny he may have thought that to be!

I had forgotten to mention a funny story our cousin Cindy had told to us during the camping weekend about a month ago. I related the story to my mom this weekend and she laughed so hard she cried. I thought you might enjoy it.

Cindy's son Derrick is now 19, and in college. During the camping weekend he got up one morning and his parent's friend Chirp said as he walked out of the camper, "hey, nice moose beard there Derrick." Derrick's got a scrawny goatee he was growing. Derrick smiled. Cindy said to us, "Didn't I ever tell you the story about that?" Apparently when Derrick was about 6 or 7 he walked in on Cindy when she was going to the bathroom. Nothing new for a mom, I'm sure. Suddenly Derrick stopped, pointed, and yelled: "MOM! You've got a moose beard!!" She nearly fell over. As you can imagine, it's been a family/friend joke ever since.

And on that note, good night!

Nothing as exciting as Pat's story of skunk spraying is going on in our lives!

Pretty much just eat, sleep, read a little, work.

Had my first photo shoot for our catalog at work last week. It went well in some ways and crappy in others. I learned the rights and wrongs, that's for sure. Got some great photos of my friend's little guy Tyler climbing on the wall. After the shoot was done, I drove over to Shanda and Gabe's and then had a few beers at Gabe's softball game. Now, I don't drink much anymore. 3 beers nearly put me under the table and I had to drive home too! It sure was fun-I didn't get home until 10:30pm which is a record for me on a working night! I even had a guy ask me where I lived-hot damn! (That may attributed to the fact that I still can't wear my wedding ring because my finger is swollen from my football injury. Whoops.)

Spent a great weekend up north 2 weeks ago. Took my cousin Tyler with and he was able to do some fishing. We spent most of Saturday out on the pontoon boat, which is great. Lots of sun and fun. Nephew Alex is growing like a weed and is a big flirt!! HE really took a liking to Tyler as well. :)

Staying home this weekend, Mike's got a bachelor party on Friday night. Rest and relaxation for the Labor Day weekend. No laboring for me!

The Winnebago Bowl was a success. We had 2 different teams for 2 games, so no real winner of one or both. Flags added a great element to the game. We've decided that they must continue.

I sustained a cool jammed finger injury. The swelling is now gone, but it's blue and yellow. Funky colors! Not broken-had X-rays. Hurts today, just sore.

Camping was great. Nice weather. Wild and crazy Saturday night, as usual. This year's event: pile-driving people out of their chairs when they were drunk.
Sara and I also snorted Pixie Sticks again. Numb nostral and I won't do that anymore. Twice is more then enough!

Gotta say, did miss Grandma being there. It's strange to not have her in Spring Grove anymore. I still haven't even made it out to cemetary since the day of her funeral. Too hard.

I hate work this week. 'Nuff said.

Going up north this weekend, bringing TYler with us for some fishing. Weather is supposed to be HOT!!

MN is still mourning Herbie. His funeral is on Friday at the St. Paul Cathedral. Lot's of great tributes going around. Amazing guy. We'll miss him.

After reading Pat's blog I had to post something. I agree with Alissa completely.
Canoeing should be done EVERY year!
It was awesome.

Funniest thing Paige said to me over the week:
"It hurts my feelings when Alissa tells me my feet stink when I wear these sandals!!!!!"

I also agree with Pat that this was one of the most fun times we've had.

Full report on the antics of the Garness clan after this weekend of camping. Leaving in 1.5 hours from work to relax in the sun and humidity
of Camp Winnebago. Get ready for Dave's "WHOO". And this year we've progressed to Flag Belts for the annual Winnebago Bowl. No more
of this two handed touch football crap.

We still need a trophy.

I am still alive, I promise. Just haven't felt like posting much. Getting things on track, mentally that is.

Enjoyed a nice vacation with my family. Canoeing the Upper Iowa with my dad and the rest of us was great. I would say Alissa holds the record for the most "whoo hoo"'s in one day. What fun they had! Beautiful day weather wise. Just what the doctor ordered for a vacation.

Work is getting a lot better. I'm busy every day and getting ready for the new school year. They say that we'll know when school starts around here because the phone rings off the hook. I guess I'd rather be busy then sitting with my thumb up my butt.

I will attest to the fact that Mike loves his new football game. He REALLY loves it. :)

Camping this weekend!

We also saw Pirates of the Caribbean over the weekend. Cool movie, very witty, interesting story. But, I did something I have never done before: I fell asleep briefly. I was exhausted that day and we went to the 10pm movie. I dozed off about 5 times I think and kept catching myself. I don't think I ever missed anything substantsial, or more then a few minutes worth, but I was mad. I have NEVER fallen asleep in a movie before. Oh well. Mike's joy of the night was the two gay guys that sat next to him and couldn't keep their hands off each other. :)

Spent last Saturday with my two college friends Jill & Erika. We had a nice time catching up with each other and heading back down to River Falls to visit our old college campus. It's changed in some ways, stayed the same in others. The town is definately grown since we were there. Later, we sat on the deck at Jill's house and looked at old pictures. Erika summed up those photos of us doing the strangest things as this: " God we were weird!" But we did have a blast. What I never realized is that I was the one (along with Jill's husband) that was doing most of the goofy stuff. I guess I used to do about anything back then for a good laugh. (Such as: climbing into the dryer at 1am to see if I fit.) Jill is currently 5 months pregnant, so talk centered on that mostly. She doesn't look pregnant, or is hiding it well! But, the baby is moving and that was so cool. I was floored at the questionaire they gave her at the hospital that she has to fill out before delivering. Such things as : "I want to feel the baby's head when it's crowning (eww)" or "My husband wants to catch the baby as it comes out" or "I want to hold it immediately after it comes out or after it has been cleaned". There is a lot to decide on!! She said her husband Matt just said,"Sign me up for whatever I can do." Cute!

This coming weekend is filling up fast. Tomorrow night Pam and the kids are coming up so that Whittney and her friend can attend a concert. I have the usual job of driving them to downtown Minneapolis :) Pam, Tyler & I will go shopping. Then I think they are staying over. On Friday night after work, I am meeting Steph at a mall in Burnsville and doing some shopping with her. She is then going to stay at our place and I will take her to the airport on Saturday morning, where she flies to Florida for work. Saturday evening, my cousin Laurie and her family are in town and we are going to a Twins game! Mike is traveling north for the 4th Annual NOME event. This is where he and his buddies stay at a cabin and drink, swim, and have horseshoe or bocce ball tournaments. He is really looking forward to the big event! Then, next week, I will have my last week of work before my 3 days off when the Webb's from NY come to visit MN!

Work stays the same. Still learning all I can.

Listening to your stories of faith in humanity makes ME feel better, Lally. Keep 'em coming because I'm not getting enough of them around here lately.

Didn't do much for the 4th. Slept in, spent a few hours at the pool, got burned a bit. Never fails. If I wear sunscreen I don't get a tan at all, if I don't where anything, I get red. Last night we went to see The Hulk. It was okay-better animation then I thought it would be. The ending was confusing. Only about 10 of us in the theater and STILL had people talking. I'm beginning to think we are just cursed to sit near people who annoy us during movies. :)

Not sure what we are going to do today. Maybe go to a mall around here that we haven't been to before? But, it's also a beauty of a day out there and I'd like to be outside again. That's the joy of this weekend, I guess. We can do what we feel like doing.

New job is fairing okay still...much to learn. Growing company and I hope that spells security. I seem to be bad luck for the places I've worked at since not even one of them are still in business.

Finished the out of town grad party thing last weekend. Derrick's party on Saturday was a beautiful 80 degree day with lots of sun. The night before we spent the evening sitting in lawn chairs in the driveway at Pam & Charlie's. With a little citronella candle in the midst of us all, it was like we were sitting around a 'mini' camp-fire. Much laughing ensued. Lots of Dave's "wah"s were going on. We also mooned Whittney and her friend as they pulled out the driveway. I wasn't even drinking that night! A good time was had by all.

On the way back from the grad party we drove some back roads up through southeastern MN. We're talking some out in the boondocks kind of roads! As we came up to the town of Houston, Mom showed to me two cemetaries that our great, great uncles are buried at. They are the siblings of Grandma Sophie Garness, whose parents died of diptheria and all the kids were orphaned and adopted out to families. Very cool churches and cemetaries. More pictures to add to the book.

The new Dell is awesome. I haven't been on it much, but it's so fast it makes our head spin. Sunday night we bought a new computer desk that is fricking HUGE. We aren't quite sure where we are going to put everything in the den yet. We are approaching that point where we need to buy a house. We outgrew the last apartment and are now outgrowing this one. It's scary how you keep gaining more crap. Ours is mostly furniture. Currently, my step-dad's old recliner is sitting smack in the middle of the living room. We usually get the cast offs of their furniture. Unfortunately, there is no place to put it. But, since we love the recliner so much, it's still sitting there!

Last night was episode 2 of The Osbournes. It's not so good this season. Ozzy is WAY out of it. Wonder if Jack is out of re-hab yet??

Congrats to Paige and her losing her two front teeth....

And I only have a few races left to go before I HOPEFULLY win the NASCAR family pool. Notice I said, Hopefully because it could swing large points in these races. I figure I'm due-I could use $50.

So it's been almost 3 weeks since I posted...I thought I better write something...

I haven't had time to be on the computer at home, so that's why the lack of posting. After I got my job I spent the rest of my time at my parents house taking a little vacation. I enjoyed myself and I saw a lot of people I haven't gotten to spend much time with.

The first week of work was hard, scary, frustrating, exciting, interesting, whatever you can think of. Emotions ran wild. Thankfully my husband held me in check and helped me through the week. I do like what I am doing with the company and as soon as I learn the crap load of stuff that is being thrown at me, I know I will feel a whole lot better. Today was a little boring, but I'm able to take on a few things of my own now. The boss freaks me out a tad, but I always have a problem with that happening. Even when I get along with them. He's nice, and I'm sure I'll get used to him. Serious guy, waiting for that moment where they lose their cool for just a bit to see their true colors.

Today we got our new Dell computer in the mail. I'm typing this on our old one, the last official use of it hopefully. It made it 4 years and is still chugging along, although slowly. It's going to be amazing to use this new one. Thanks to my brother for the technical assistance in what to purchase.

Whittney, our cousin, graduated from high school on Friday night in Rochester, MN. Century High School-the first complete graduating class, meaning they went all 4 years to the new school. Her party was fun but I was tired when it was over. My uncle Charlie's family was WAY more fun then anyone else. They know how to party. And Charlie's brother Sherman is awesome! We had a great time getting to know him better. Later that night we went over to Uncle Dave's place and had a camp fire in their driveway with one of those cool portable pits. But it rained, so the outside party didn't last long. We had fun inside telling stories that make Steph screech her famous laugh. Then Dave tried to imitate her...it went on and on. Cousin Amy was in town from SLC, so that made it even more fun. We had the 2nd Annual Toga Party on May 30, but she wasn't able to make it, so we are having another this Friday. 2 weeks ago we watched Dumb and Dumber and Stripes. This week it sounds like Deuce Bigalow and Van Wilder. I love the movie Van Wilder. Good stupid fun. Saturday is grad party #3 for Derrick. Thankfully I won't see my family until the end of July after that. It's getting a little old and the fighting is a'comin' out.

Weather is getting nicer, still not too warm yet. I'm still trying to get used to the new schedule of not getting home until almost 6pm. No time to work out as of yet, but I'm going to have to get my ass in gear soon. I don't plan on letting all my hard work of the last month go to waste.

As of 1pm, CST today, I am now employed.

WA HOO!

I start June 2. More money, cool job. I'm excited.

Back in St. Paul after spending the last week in Rochester. It was a nice time-relaxing. I don't know why I was able to relax better there then at my own place. Me and the dog had fun. I got so used to being at his beck and call and reacting when I heard a noise outside like he did that yesterday I heard kids outside and was ready to start saying, "TJ-take it easy." Wierd.

Today I had to attend a job re-entry session at the local Job Force Center. Mandatory. And a big waste of my time. The guy was about my dad's age and really looked like he didn't know how to advise people on how to find a job. He spent 20 minutes showing us a web site and how it worked. Read everything off a piece of paper that the entire room had a copy of. I didn't learn anything other then my job search methods were probably going to find me a job better then his.

I have a second interview tomorrow for the job I really am interested in. Hopefully it goes well.

Our friends Matt & Jill let us know they are expecting a baby in November. I'm very happy for them-now the questions start on when we are having kids! Let's just say....we're not ready yet. Give me two more years.

Wanted to post this web site and forgot recently...I think I mentioned trying to remember this comedian's name to Pat. His special on HBO is over the top hilarious. Eddie Izzard...if you see this cross dressing makeup wearing dude on television, you must stop and watch. His best line on referring to how the language in Britain is spoke (he is a brit) and our version here is this: "You say ERB and we say HERB because there's a f-ing H in it." He's rocks. Thanks to my husband for introducing me!

Mike and the Stanley Cup...what can I say? He had fun while I was in Rochester!

One funny note regarding the Wild and the playoffs...our cousin Whittney, who is 18, has turned into a hockey fanatic in the last year or so. (Reminds me of me at that age! It really has to do with hot boys when it starts, but then you actually learn the game and like it) My aunt and uncle are telling me how violent she gets when she's been watching the Wild. Such things as "clear the f-ing puck you moron" can be heard coming from this quiet and shy young woman. But, the classic, was heard by her dad while watching American Idol. As one girl is going to be voted off, Whittney yells: "You're going down, BITCH". Apparently hockey screaming spreads!!!

FYI-I have now begun to hire myself out for cash on the barrel. I clean houses and organize photo albums for people, which are two jobs I've recently acquired. Please contact me via this web site for more information and costs. My prices are very competitive and if you are a relative (as that's the only people hiring me) I'll give you a deal. Just remember you are supporting my Krispy Kreme habit by paying me.

Target stores have now started to sell boxed Krispy Kreme's. I found this out today. It's a bad thing for me.
GOD HELP my weight after this revelation.

Believe it or not, I was actually busy last week. I should have posted, but our computer sucks lately.

Anyway, when it rains it pours. I had 2 job interviews yesterday, and one today. Out of 3, only 1 sounds like it is something I'd like to do. And, since I just sent my brother into gails of laughter over how it occurred, I will share it with you...I've sent in stuff to places that advertise for a position, but don't put down the name of the company. Therefore when they call, I don't always have a clue who they are and that I sent something to them. So, on Saturday while we had Mike's company visiting, I get a phone call. Thinking it's a telemarketer as he says, "Hi Kristin this is Tim from Blank Company, do you have a minute" I say in respose: "Well, I have company, but can you make it quick?" He then proceeds to say that the job I applied for had been filled but he was curious to know if I'd be interested in hearing about another one available with them. Then, I nearly crapped myself. I apologized, he apologized for calling on a Saturday, etc. It was fine. But, still embarrassing. Turns out to be a cool company.

Yesterday was a really fun day as well because Mike won tickets to the MN Wild game! This is playoff game 2 against the Anaheim Mighty Ducks. 5th row, lower level, behind the goalie. Amazing seats and such a fun time. They lost 2-0, still fun. Mike's great luck occurred through the radio station 93X and was just really luck. He didn't have to answer any trivia questions which he always knows the answers to anyway! We called Pat from the arena to let him know where we were. Low and behold, they saw us! What a night!

Today I am in Rochester for my week long stint with the dog. He's depressed that the parents left him behind. I told him that he better start being nicer to me because I was his only friend for the week! We took a nap together and he is now finally perking up. Man, they can act like little kids sometimes! He is looking at me to go outside right now because he knows that the mailman and paperboy are on their way. He is not allowed outside when they come cuz he goes beserk. We still don't know why. The mailman likes him, and TJ likes him back, but the paperboy is FREAKeD of TJ. I think it's funny.

Should get the first unemployment check this week. Received the severance check. Taxes took care of most of the extra received. Lovely.

I completed my Target Market scrapbook last week as well. It was really therepeutic and I felt like I put things behind me. I haven't thought about the work crap since then. I can now look back on it as a cool experience.

Going out tonight with my college friend Erika and her boyfriend that I have not met yet. He is graduating from optomology school this week to be an eye doctor. I think she's got some moola coming her way if they get married! We love to tease her about that.

I watched the best movie on Sunday: Mr. Smith Goes to Washington starring Jimmy Stewart. If you haven't seen it, and you want that feel good feeling you get from watching It's A Wonderful Life, rent this one. I would place it a close second to that classic. Both Frank Capra directed of course. That guy had a way of making you feel good about mankind again!

Since I last posted, I've now joined the ranks of the unemployed. Today was day 3 (not including the weekend) and I'm getting really agitated. I need more to do. I'm working on it.

A short story on the last day of work: it was wierd. The people are psycho. I'm glad it's over. The CEO didn't have the balls to say good bye to anyone and many people couldn't look me in the eye. The ones that still had their jobs, to say the least. AHH. Guilt. It does funny things to many people. Post party with co workers was a blast. We had the cops called on us because we were so loud. We enjoyed it. Go out with a bang. I wrote a kick ass Exit Interview. Harsh, but polite. It's now officially over and I'm working at putting it all behind me.

Today I did the following: worked out, took a shower, watched Days of Our Lives, ate lunch, watched part of Monsters, Inc. again, watched some of Jerry McGuire, went to get my oil changed (they're so dumb it made me laugh), went to the bank for quarters for the laundry, came home and did laundry, did some graphics for a project I'm working on, finished the laundry and started supper, now I'm doing my cover letters for the week. I'm currently doing this to avoid doing more cover letters.

We saw X-Men 2 on Friday night. Great movie, I liked it better then the first. It's a bit jam packed with story lines, but I felt it kept my attention well. Wolverine is still cool.

Pat-I think you need some sort of device that signals you when you don't zip up your fly.

I also received my unemployment PIN number today and the calculations of what my weekly payment will be. At least they are on the ball with getting out the paperwork!

On Friday I also obsessively cleaned the entire apartment. How many more times do you think I'll do that in the next month?? Next week I am dog sitting for my parents in Rochester. It's something to do! YAY!!

2 more days of work!

Because we just had Easter, I couldn't resist this web site that was posted on Dave Barry's blog about my favorite candy: PEEPS!

It's taken me awhile to like them again, but I do. Here's why they were off my favorite candy list for awhile:

When I turned 21, it was March 1996. At midnight, I was going out to celebrate the night before. I was really tired because I'd been working alot and had mid-terms. So, in order to stay awake, I drank the dregs of a 2-liter of Coke and ate one of those 5 pack of Peeps. I figured the combined sugar would keep me going. Well, it did, and we took off with my roommate Jill, her boyfriend Matt, and my 3 best college guy friends: Brad, Steve & Dan. Needless to say, they proceeded to get me completely s**t faced. The bars close in Wisconsin at 2:30am, so we all stumbled to the dorms together. I headed straight for the bathroom. And what did I throw up? Peeps. Then I passed out and slept through my first class. I made it to my 11am class, lasted only 5 minutes, and left to go vomit again. Thankfully, as I was walking out the door I overheard someone say to the teacher,"I saw her downtown last night-it's her 21st birthday." The teacher was sympathetic.

After this, I could NOT eat peeps. It made me sick to even look at them. My family took great fun in giving peeps to me for both Easter and my birthday in the following years. But, I am proud to say that since peeps made their first appearance in stores in early March, I have eaten more then a dozen. And they FINALLY taste good again. :)

A side note: my co-worker told that she and her roommates in college took peeps and put them on people's car antenna's. Depending on how cold the spring was, most of the time they froze on there. People had frozen peeps on their car until it was warm enough to remove the goo. :)

This is sort of related in a beer sense, but check out this new sport.

Thanks for the words of advice Mike L.

We do have the digital cable system with the guide on it so I'm well prepared. Because we are nearing May, I am hesitant to upgrade cable, as I would like to be outside more if possible. But, we do have movie channels so I'm sure I will use them well. I have started making a list of things I would like to accomplish and people I would like to visit. I will make sure to add such things are laundry to this list however. And, I will have to leave the house on a daily basis or I will go insane. I've found that out already.

Technically, only about 5 actual days of work left. My days consist of answering the phone and scanning pictures of my own personal stuff. I like the scanner here better. Otherwise, my files have been cleaned out and my computer has been cleaned out. They would rather we didn't touch anything else, especially if it's heavy, because they don't want any workman comp claims to deal with. So, we're all pretty much sitting on our arses. There is about 8 of us left out of 17.

We saw Anger Management on Friday night. Because we are fans of both Nicholson and Sandler, we really liked it. As one reviewer said, it's 'obvious laughs'. Well, what Sandler movie isn't? And they're all a little korny. I would say that I have never seen Nicholson like this before-its his finest goof ball comedy. Sandler played more of straight man for the first time and Marisa Tomei was a nice extra as the girlfriend.

Bought the book "Thanks for the memories, Mr. President" by Helen Thomas. Pretty cool so far. Great stories about the presidents from Kennedy to George W. I also purchased "Woman Enough" by Loretta Lynn. It's the sequel to Coal Miners Daughter and what's happened since then. She a darn nice job and the editors left her language intact, which made for a fun read. When she says, "I run her off the place." I believe it! The coolest story was that when Tommy Lee Jones wanted to hang out with Doo to learn how to walk and talk like him for the movie. Doo didn't want anything to do with him because he thought Tommy was going to make fun of him. Finally, Tommy gave up. He drove on down to Butcher Hollar where they actually filmed the early parts of the movie, took a jeep, got drunk and drove crazy all through town. He ended up getting arrested and the studio had to bail him out. After Doo heard that, he thought Tommy was about the coolest thing and hung out with him after that! I started that book Saturday night and had it finished by yesterday afternoon, it was so good. ;)

We didn't go anywhere for Easter. Anti-family. I cleaned out the closets and boxed stuff up for a garage sale. We had tacos for lunch and brats for dinner. Mike played Playstation 2. We watched Episode 2 and My Big Fat Greek Wedding. That was the extent of our day! Hope everyone else had a nice Easter.

The Gophers win the Frozen Four Championship, and the students riot in Dinkytown.

Why? I guess I just don't get it. Breaking stuff, burning and looting must be the way to support your team.

Wild in the playoffs for NHL hockey. Who'd have thought it just a few short years ago? Take that Norm Green. We salute you.

The nephew will be celebrating his first birthday tomorrow. Hard to believe! We had a nice party for him over the weekend where he received many toys and clothes that he will not care a thing about. Boxes and wrapping paper are MUCH better to play with....But at least he has the essentials of being a 1 year old!

It hit 90 in St. Paul today...can you believe it? However, Mike & I were comparing notes, and a year ago tomorrow when we left town to go up to Duluth to see Alex in the hospital when he was born, the temp was 91 when we left. Duluth, when we arrived 2.5 hours later was 39 degrees in the harbor and 100% fogged in. Can it get much wierder in Minnesota then that?? Tomorrow we'll be freezing our arses off it sounds like. 40's by Wednesday, not that I'm complaining though...

And might I point out that Mike said he is watching too much Larry McReynolds on FOX, because he said the word 'fixin' today in a sentence. Is NASCAR making us a bit hillbilly?

Pat, my mysterious illness is beginning to crop up at work. I think I'll have to be sick next week or something. Maybe the mysterious SARS??

Either way, it looks like unemployment will be my new friend by about May 15 or so. Yikes! I've never been on it before. Anyone have words of advice?

When I woke up yesterday morning, I was informed by my step-dad that David Bloom had died. I couldn't believe it.

I have to say that I was doing pretty much the same as Pat in terms of commenting to people on the fantastic reporting the guy had been doing. I had been watching NBC Nightly News for 2 weeks just to catch Bloom's awesome footage. Being a former (almost) journalist, the stuff he was pulling off had me scratching my head trying to figure out how they were editing this stuff.

I heard today that they think his blood clot could have been caused by his sleeping conditions. He had mentioned that he was sleeping in a curled fetal position due to the close quarters they were in. Medical Officials have said that long airplane trips with little leg movement can cause blood clots-may have been the same thing here. It's just one of those deals that is NOT fair. We've lost an amazing reporter.

Minnesota's NBC affiliate KARE 11 had just done an interview with Bloom's brother last week because they are from Edina, MN. (And Bloom grew up here). The brother said they were worried about him just like if he were a soldier. It's unfortunate that he wasn't able to make it home. Having just gone through one funeral of a guy too young to die with kids, I can't help but really grieve for this family.

Sitting down here at Mike's aunt and uncles house, so thought I'd post since I'm not doing much else. Besides watching people be drunk :)

I got down here to Muscatine, IA Wednesday afternoon. Took about 4 hours-nice trip. It was about 80 degrees and so sunny. Very nice drive with my thoughts...Went to the funeral home that afternoon for the wake of Mike's Uncle. Met a lot of family and friends of course. It was pretty cool-they buried him in his Cubs hat and jersey. About 4 cans of Budweiser and packs of cigarettes made their way into the casket as well. As they joked today, they're probably already gone :)

The funeral was much more difficult as we all know. Unfortunately, the pastor was a real boob and delivered a very inappropriate sermon to say the least. A lot of people were very upset. The hard part was the song played-Butterfly Kisses by Bob Carlisle. Since he was a dad to 3 kids, it really broke a lot of people up. As usual, I underestimated the impact of the cemetary just like I did at my Grandma's funeral. Military funerals are hard and so emotional (Tom served two tours in Viet Nam). The part that hit me was when this old VFW guy in his outfit comes up to Tom's oldest son (who is currently in the army and was dressed in his uniform) and said with the flag in his hands: "On behalf of the United States Army, we'd like to present you with this American Flag in appreciatation for your father's service to his country." Wow. Then, they did the 21 gun salute and Taps. Taps hit everybody hard. Anyway-I think we all felt a large weight lift off our shoulders when everything was done. He's really going to be missed by his family and friends.

Leaving tomorrow morning to head back to Rochester and stay there until Sunday. Mike will leave here on Sunday to come home. Back to work for us both on Monday. I've been checking my work emails and I'm starting to get nervous. They want a full staff meeting with us all on Tuesday and the request was that all the staff bring their schedules of what they have planned for work in the next month or so. What can that mean? I'm really thinking shut down early.

Jobs-send 'em my way. PLEASE!! :)

It's been over a week since I posted-been extremely busy.

We had our last big event with Target Market this weekend. I haven't had a day off now in 9 days, worked 43 extra hours on top of my normal 40. Ready for a break!! :)

Unfortunately, we had more bad news yesterday. Mike's Uncle Tom was killed in a car accident Saturday night. So, he left this afternoon to head down to Iowa. I'm leaving Wednesday for the funeral on Thursday. He's very shook up about it, as are the rest of the family. Hopefully all goes well this week.

FYI to Dad, Pat, Lyn-no NASCAR results probably until next week. I"d do them, but I don't know where he has the Excel sheet. Lyn-I heard you're sick of Steve Park being the human wrecking machine?

I haven't had time to catch up on my war news until today. Just found out that Peter Arnett was fired. That's a story, for sure. Heard Geraldo got fired too...that on the other hand isn't so surprising.

Pat-Kirby's trial is all the news at night up here. He's supposed to be testifying himself sometime this week.

I'm watching the movie Primary Colors tonight. I love it-John Travolta was great in it. Makes me miss Clinton. I can't help it. I was reminded of an SNL right after Bush took office. Will Farrell's on the phone talking to Bush Sr. and says, "Daddy, this is HARD!" I love Barbara Bush's quote last week. She said (and I'm paraphrasing big time) "I'm counseling the former President, the current President, and the governor of Florida." Then I think she said something about how she's really running things. Pretty close!

I'll be out of state from tomorrow through the weekend. Our HR director who is acting as the boss these days had the nerve to ask me if I was taking sick time for funeral leave. My response? "How many hours do you think I worked this past weekend? I'm taking comp time." I would have liked to have added a name to punctuate the sentence, but I did not. I need the unemployment. :) Pat, I keep your advice in my head each day, believe me. It's the only way I don't go postal.

Again, I agree with Pat's analysis of Clerks.

God Bless America.

And hope for the very best.

This article really makes me sad about Kirby Puckett.

As I read this quote from an article relating to the SI one, I felt it was appropriate. Especially since I looked at this guy like an idol.

"Idolatry is really not good for anyone," as Washington Wizards assistant coach John Bach said of Michael Jordan in Monday's New York Times. "Not even the idols."

I'm still glad I saw him go to Cooperstown. There isn't another baseball player I'd probably ever go see inducted in person.

Tell me again why I'm mad at you Lally??

;-)

Tell Karen she'll probably like Daredevil. I didn't tell MN Mike that I had no interest in going because I knew nothing about the character. Since it was his birthday, I went. And then, to my surprise, I liked it. So, tell her to give it a chance. I did the same thing with SpiderMan and Xmen and really enjoyed them too.

Sorry it's been awhile since I posted anything. Work has been hellish and has taken much of my time and energy.

For Lally and my brother, I sent to you both a photo of Mike & I at Graceland. I promise I will scan more when time permits. My days are taken up largely by resumes and cover letters these days.

The birthday season for us passed through on March 1 and March 6 for me and Mike (respectively). When my grandfather who is almost 88 tells me that I'm old at 28, what does that mean!?! :) On Mike's birthday we went out to dinner at Ol' Mexico, a neat mexican restaurant in Woodbury near our home. Then, we went to Best Buy so he could spend his birthday money on electronics. His purchases were: The Osbournes Season One DVD and NASCAR 2003 for PS2. I had a few bucks left from Mike's parents gift to me, so I bought an Elvis CD and a cheapo design cd for the computer so I can make frames around photos I scan, for a project I'm doing. The $5 I spent on Corel Draw was not worth it, but what do you get for that amount of money anyway? Exactly. Also, I must point out that I was asked by 11 different people at the store if they could 'help me'. Why is it that when I am not purchasing anything of value at their store, they want to help me? But when I want to buy a computer or television, there isn't anyone around for miles and miles? The service even included an emaciated young man in a wheel chair asking if he could help me out. His arms were so thin that I wanted to ask him if I could help him before they snapped in two!!

After the Best Buy excursion, we went to see Daredevil with Ben Affleck. Great movie-I really liked it a lot. I'm not a big comic book person, so I don't know anything about the character. Because Mike is a big fan of this guy, he wished they had gone into more detail in some areas. I like Ben most of the time and thought he did an admirable job. My favorite character was played by Jon Favreau, the guy that played Monica's boyfriend Pete the millionaire on Friends. (the guy is always and will be Pete to Mike & I. Also in Swingers and Rudy.) He was the perfect balance for Ben Affleck. I did agree that there were a few too many gaps in the story line that left me wondering a lot of stuff. Overall, entertaining. And, Jennifer Garner kicks some ass.

Remember Lally, this is all only in my OPINION!!!

Shut down date for Target Market: April 30. My thinking: they'll get rid of us by March 31.

Pat, I bought the book Religion for Dummies that you had listed on your wish list. It's a cool book.

In response to my brother's post of the Kellogg guy being the namesake of my junior high...it is so fitting that the man was a 'flake' because I HATED that school more then anything I've ever disliked in my life. It was the worst three years! It was so appropriate they named the school after him.

Lally-I collect Hard Rock shot glasses.

And, I will scan Graceland photos to post.

Back to Minnesota last night as off 9:15 pm. It was a long 13 hour day of driving from Memphis, Tennessee. But, we made it and had a fantastic trip. The only downside is that we've come home to 5 degree temps after basking in 80 degree sunshine for 5 days!

As I could tell a zillion stories, I'll give you a low down of the trip, and then put in "tales from the road" as my brother does...

We left at 7:30am on Friday, the 14th. We were in Paducah, Kentucky by 6pm that evening. Not too bad. Left at 7am the following morning and arrived in Jacksonville at 6:30pm. It was warm and beautiful! I liked Jacksonville as a city a lot.

The next day we went back to Georgia to visit with Mike's cousin Chad, whom he hadn't seen in 6 years. He is married with 7 year old twin girls, and a 14 month old daughter. We met at a great outlet mall about an hour from Savannah where I was able to shop at the Gap and get some deals. Nice to meet more of his family. On Monday we drove to St. Augustine, Florida, which is the oldest town in the US. This is where Juan Ponce de Leon discovered the Fountain of Youth. Naturally, there is a whole tourist attaction around this! The town is cool-a fort is on the water front and the town is all in cobblestone with little shops. Spanish influence, sort of reminded me of a cross between California and the French Quarters in New Orleans. Ate supper there and shopped. Beautiful weather. Went to the beach there as well and walked in the ICE COLD ocean!

Left Tuesday morning for what intended to be a stop at Daytona and then to Disney. Well, we rolled into Daytona at 8:45am and fell in love with the place. Toured the track (which is so banked on the corners it's amazing) and got to walk on pit row, AND go to victory lane for pictures. Wicked cool stuff. Got to see the Earnhardt statue out front. Inside there are attractions such as the history of the track, the hall of fame of Daytona, etc. There is the 16 second pit challenge where you are invited to try change ONE tire, not four, in 16 seconds. It was fun to watch. You can also do play by play for a taped race, watch a movie, drive the Silcon Speedway, go on a simulated ride (the kind that puts you in a seat in front of a screen and jostles you all over). The highlight was to Michael Waltrip's Napa car on display from just two days prior. I posed with thumbs up! :)

We didn't leave Daytona until noon, and decided to go to Sea World instead of DIsney. We finally realized we wanted a lot more time to go to Disney then we would have, so decided to wait until another trip. Disappointing, but I think we made the right decision. Sea World was really neat. Shamu show is fantastic as are the other shows such as dolphin and sea lions. It was a super fun day.

On to Ocala, FLorida to stay with Aunt #2 who had a new puppy named Minnie. We didn't do anything for 2 days but lay around and actually 'vacation' and check out the town. Left Friday morning for Memphis and had one hell of a day trying to get there. Got caught in Birmingham, Alabama for over an hour due to a closed down interstate. Then it rained all the way to Memphis. Another 13 hour day.

Spent all day at Graceland on Saturday, which of course to me was the highlight. I'm a dork, I know, but i've wanted to go there since I was 8 years old. I nearly peed my pants when we drove up I was so excited. It was a cool experience, with the house being as gaudy as you would expect from Elvis. Shag green carpet on the floor AND the ceiling in the Jungle Room! But, only 2 rooms were lavishly decorated-the rest are putting much typical 70's living areas. Just with more money! The do a nice audio tour, so you can wander at your leisure and it has Elvis, Priscilla and Lisa giving anecdotes on your headset. I learned even more then I thought I knew about the King. Last, we headed to the Meditation Gardens where he and his family are buried. Everyone gets pretty quiet out there-rather neat experience. Then, the rest of the time is spent exploring 3 other museums and like 20 gift shops. I didn't buy a lot, but did buy a fair amount! Car museum is really nifty-he had some great ones. Ate at the Elvis Chrome Grill, which is a southern style restaurant with harleys and cars parked in it. Then, we also were able to go on the two airplanes he owned. The Lisa Marie is truly a 'Flying Graceland' as he called it. Gold plated seat belt covers for godsakes! I was in my glory all day long.

Later, we drove down to Beale Street and then went to Sun Records where Elvis was first recorded. The pamphlet says, "They say the tour will give you goosebumps..." Which I thought was crap. It is not. One truly does get goosebumps! It's a simple half hour tour, with a tour guide who is a little too theatric, but puts a nice twist on everything. (He totally fits the place-side burns, rolled up jeans like the 50's, and REALLY knows his rock n roll history)_I was actually standing on the mark that Elvis stood while recording "That's All RIght Mamma". They play bits of the different songs recorded there in the studio as you stand there...and that's where the goosebumps begin. Jerry Lee Lewis, Johnny Cash, Ike Turner, Carl Perkins, BB King, you name it. They even let you touch the original microphone that Elvis used. They let you use flash photography in the studio so I hope the pictures turn out. They also have a great souvenir shop where I bought Dad his tshirt that he asked for. I also bought a small poster of the "Million Dollar Quartet" if you've ever seen the photo of Elvis at the piano with Carl Perkins, Jerry Lee and Johnny Cash surrounding him. That was Sam Phillips money makers at their best.

We ate on Beale Street at BB King's club. Great food, and even cooler music. It was Beale Street at it's finest with loud blues music, lots of people and food that is southern to the core. Did a little shopping at the Hard Rock down the street and a few other shops. It was hard to leave Beale!

And then we left yesterday morning. we drove by Graceland on the way out of town as I waved and said,"Later Elvis!"

Tales from the Road:

Played the license plate game and came up three states short: Hawaii, Rhode Island and Wyoming.

Some interesting signs included the following:
Cruisin' Chubby's Gentleman's Club-Truck Parking
Ho Chunk Casino
ABS-The Bovine Love Connection
Eat More Chikin (from a bunch of cows posing)

Funny License Plates:
Uff Da 4
Nrwgn 2

SItes:
A water tower size cross in Effingham, Illinois. Still no idea what it represents.
From Paducah to Florida we saw more then 50 Waffle Houses. What's the big deal?
In Nashville, you could buy Fireworks EVERYWHERE. And really cool ones at that!
Saw TBS, Olympic Torch Site and Turner Field in Atlanta.
Kentucky boasts cheapest cigarette sale prices in the US.
We got into some freaky backwoods places in Alabama. "You shore gotta purdy mouth"
Earnhardt statue at Daytona!
Cheapest gas was $1.33 just over the Georgia border.
Most expensive was $1.79 in Illinois. Most we paid was $1.74 in Edgewood, Illinois.. The cheapest we paid was $1.51 in Macon, Georgia.
Went through 11 states in all: MN, WI, Illinois, Kentucky, Tenneessee, Georgia, Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, Missouri, Arkansaw.

And those are the tales from the road. Great trip, but I think we'll fly to Florida when we go back the next time!! It was a looonnnnggg drive but well worth the money and vacation time. Back to work tomorrow! All I heard from the newspapers on the job situation is that the Governor proposed taking all the money that funds us-but obviously the legislature still has to vote on it. I'll find out more tomorrow I'm sure! Post cards will probably reach many of you this week...hope you like them.

I'm outta here...gone until the 25th.

Bye!

I just spent 2 hours at the most worthless job fair of non-profits. You know things are really bad when all they're offering is summer help and stipends.

It's even worse when you see a former political candidate that you know there who lost the last local election looking for a job too.

I had a blogger moment this morning as I was attempting to drive patiently through traffic in snowy weather....do you ever have a time when you want to tell something to someone, but the topic is rather gross? Here's an example: say, you go to the bathroom, and something happens such as a poo that is so long you wonder whether it will flush. It's so funny and interesting (at least to you) that you want to pass it along. But others will be grossed out, such as many of you are that are reading this. So, maybe you confide in your spouse. Your spouse is equally grossed out, but can't help but laugh. I guess one just keeps it to oneself. Here's my question then:

What's the funniest term you've heard to describe having a bowel movement? Here's a few I've learned:
"pinch a loaf"
"dropping the kids off at the pool"
"take a crap, shit, dump"
and my all time favorite, "I gotta go grow a monkey tail."

Florida trip is close to being a reality. We leave Friday morning. I guess all that's left to do is to buy food and stock the cooler, plus pack. I dug out the summer clothes and I can only hope that it's actually warm enough to use some of them!

We might try to go to The World of Coca-Cola in Atlanta, on our way to Memphis. Still no decisions on Disney World yet. It's really hard!

Tonight, we are all cordially invited to watch Sharon and Ozzy Osbourne renew their wedding vows in a ceremony sure to freak us all out. Preview: Ozzy kissing Marilyn Manson. Ouch!

I'm feeling like this sort of says it all for American companies these days...

"A Japanese company and an American company decided to have a canoe race
on the Missouri River. Both the teams practiced hard and long to reach
their peak performance before the race. On the big day the Japanese won
by a mile.

Afterward, the American team became very discouraged and morally
depressed.

The American management decided the reason for the crushing defeat had
to be found. A "Management Team" made up of senior management was formed
to investigate and recommend appropriate action.

Their conclusion was: The Japanese had 8 people rowing and 1 person
steering, while the American team had 8 persons steering and one person
rowing.

So American management hired a consulting company and paid them an
incredible amount of money. They advised that too many people were
steering the boat, while not enough people were rowing.

To prevent losing to the Japanese again next year, the rowing team's
management structure was totally reorganized to 4 steering supervisors,
3 area steering superintendents and 1 assistant superintendent steering
manager.

They also implemented a new performance system that would give the 1
person rowing the boat greater incentive to work harder. It was called
the "Rowing Team Quality First Program," with meetings, dinners and free
pens for the rower. "We must give the rower the empowerment and
enrichments through this quality program."

The next year the Japanese won by two miles. Humiliated, American
management:

- Laid off the rower for poor performance,

- Halted development of a new canoe,

- Sold the paddles, and

- Canceled all capital investments for new equipment.

Then they distributed the money saved as bonuses to the senior
executives. "

Spent last weekend in Northern Minnesota visiting my in-laws and the nephew. He's grown a lot and is hilarious. He doesn't want to crawl, but rather inch worms his way to where he wants to go. Loves his walker thing. He's a very laid back baby and smiles all the time.

The decision was made last weekend that we are going to take a trip to Florida Feb. 14-23. COOL! We'll be driving down and staying in Jacksonville and Ocala with Mike's 2 aunts. We're going to plan a day at Disney World, which means we have to make some serious choices on what we want to see. The big two at this point are Magic Kingdom and Universal. When I get Pat's Disney book, we'll have to check it out. I'd really like it to be warm so that we can go to the beach in Jacksonville. I've only been to one other beach on an ocean, which was the Bahamas, and I couldn't get in the water because it was hurricane season!

On the way back home, we're coming on up through Memphis so I can visit Graceland at last. I've been doing a lot of research on it, along with the added attractions that go with it. All I can say is that I will be in Elvis Heaven when I go there. I wanted to stay a night at the new Heartbreak Hotel, but it's looking like they are full that weekend. Have to settle for a 'normal' hotel I guess. Otherwise, we'll visit Beale Street, some shops, and take a tour of Sun Records where Elvis got his start.

Mike found a cool web site that allows you personalize hockey jerseys and it is immediately displayed on the screen. Example: Gretzky, 99, on a Pittsburgh Penguins Jersey. Or, Kristin, 01, on a Minnesota Wild. It's cool. They even have old teams, such as our hometown fave, MN North Stars. Check it out at: http://www.icejerseys.com/ Click on the link "Customize Your Jersey".

Here's a brief tidbit of what's going on at work: we are a program of the American Lung Association, because they administer our grant. Guess what they did today? They eliminated the entire tobacco control program. Um, hello? Does it make sense to anyone to operation the American Lung Association without a tobacco program? Is it not the number one cause of lung disease? We're still here until July at this point, when our grant runs out. Just another reason to get out sooner!

Yay!

Spent the weekend hanging out, not much going on. I had to work on Saturday as well. It's been so cold we pretty much have stayed home and burrowed in. It's not supposed to get above 6 degrees tomorrow. And we still have no snow.

I have an interview tomorrow. It's not something I think I'll take, but I figured it would be good practice to get back into the groove again.

I've got Mike hooked on Harry Potter books right now. He just started the third one, Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azakaban, which is my favorite by far. I'm really excited to know that the fifth book will be out in June. The fight will be on which one of us gets to read it first!

I just finished family photo book #3 for Mom, which means I'm finished. All I have left is to begin the Webb album, which is mine, so I can take my time. I'm taking a short break, and organizing my information at this point. I still have a lot to put into the computer program. Unfortunately, our setup at home with our desk doesn't make data entry very easy. I think I'm going to have to re-adjust some stuff in that room.

Rented The Rookie with Dennis Quaid, but haven't watched it yet.

Friday was the last day of work for my boss. Scary. Much drinking commenced last week.

Yesterday there were issues already, but managed. I can only imagine what today may bring. The governor is going to announce his budget ideas.

Pat, did SNL not suck with Jeff Gordon? Or, should I say that the show itself sucks now?

We have finally hit typical January weather in Minnesota. This morning it was -2 degrees with only a high of 13 expected. We have yet to receive any substantial snow, however. We had about an inch last night, bringing our total to 6 for the season. So, if you guys in NY would like to send snow our way, we'd take it. I'd like to go snowmobiling next weekend up north, but it might only happen if I go out on the lake. The lake is the ONLY place with enough snow!

This past Friday we attended the Vikings Exhibit at the Science Museum in St. Paul. It was very interesting, especially for us Norskies. If it comes near you, I highly recommend it. It was interactive with a Viking ship you could walk on and a replica of a village.

Yesterday in the mail I received two new books that I'm psyched to read. Last Train To Memphis and Careless Love are 2 part bios on Elvis written by Peter Guralnick. It's great because the books are based on facts, interviews and the author is not simply drawing his own conclusions or painting Elvis in a specific way. I'm looking forward to learning some things I didn't know. And, as Paige said, "What's with you and this Elvis?"
:)

I'm getting really scared. All I did was post a brief comment on Clerks and Mallrats.

If I had known it was going to become this, I might not have. haha

:)

I don't know enough about Kevin Smith and his movies other then to make a passing comment.
I don't think I care enough to post more then a passing comment. But, as always, I am interested in reading any movie rant. March on Lally!

I was going to repeat a good burn that my husband said, but I won't. It could just open up another can of worms from Lally AND my brother. :)

I will agree with you both that A Beautiful Mind is a great movie. I think that anyone who has this disease deserves a medal for just living day to day. It was really a great explanation of what a person with Schizophrenia goes through.

Hey Lally, can I not have my own opinion on a movie!?!?

:)

Since this is my FIRST foray into the world of Kevin Smith, here's my discussion of the topic:
I did like Clerks, it was, as I said, Interesting....I laughed. The format was cool. But I still liked Mallrats a lot better. That's just the way it goes in my world! I guess my personality and humor is better suited to Mallrats. Perhaps it's my age and that I did hang out in malls when I was ages 12-16.

However, if you want to get into the whole Kevin Smith, best flick discussion, I would say Clerks is his finest of that series because it's 'different' and that he made the frickin' movie with a budget of like $20,000. Dogma would be the close second.

All in my 'opinion' of course.

Thank You. Good night.

Okay, just so no one takes me off their blog lists, I thought I better post something.

The sickness stuff is much better then it was, but still isn't going away. I managed to get in a full day of work yesterday, but I am paying the piper today. It seems like one day I'll do good, the next I'm worn out. Day by day will just be how it goes.

Mom & I had a great time visiting Pat & family for Christmas. My two favorite things that Paige said to me were:

"Aunt Kristin....what's with you and this Elvis guy?" This was in reference to a book Alissa had given me for Christmas. Paige didn't quite get why I liked him!

"I'm glad I'm not you!" We were disagreeing about her not getting out of the tub and I told her that Lyn would be mad at ME if Paige wasn't ready. That was her response.

It was nice to see Alissa still excited about Christmas too. Kids really do make the holidays fun and memorable. That's what it should be all about.

I'm offically on a mission to find a new job. My boss is leaving her position as of next week and I can't stay here without her support. It pretty much seems like each day or week, we find out how crappy the state of government offices and their staffers REALLY are. Unfortunately, they are screwing a fantastic program and disappointing a ton of Minnesota teens. I wouldn't give it more then 3 months to last. I had thought I would stay on to close the place down, basically since I put so much into setting up the program at the beginning. But, the information I received yesterday pretty much erased that option from my mind. I'm on the hunt!

Mike & I are in the midst of a Kevin Smith movie marathon. I had honestly never seen such flicks as Mallrats, Clerks, Dogma, etc. Mallrats was awesome (and it was filmed at Eden Prairie center which is right next to where I used to work at techies), Clerks was interesting and Dogma was hilarious.

Apparently, this sickness that is going around is not going away. Hang in there Mike L.!

Here' s the take on my cold/flu/sickness whatever. Mike had it first, both my parents have had it. Barry's still hasn't gone away completely and is on anti-biotics. Mike felt better, but still didn't get rid of his hacking. Then, I get it a week ago. It's the kind where the first day, I was so wiped out I could barely move. After that, I could manage half days at work and had some energy. Then all the sudden, I would feel like crap. By Friday I was doing a little bit better and thought I was on the right track. WRONG! I was up all that night coughing again. We had a Christmas party in Duluth on Saturday night that I really wanted to go to, so once I got up and going Saturday morning, we went. I made it okay-but was in bed by midnight. Woke up hacking the most horrible crap out. We were home by noon on Sunday and I felt a lot better. Still coughing , but it was getting much better. Mike slept all day Sunday, so should have known something was coming. He woke up Monday coughing again with a sore throat. I felt good all day Monday, and felt really good Tuesday, minus the coughing. Tuesday, Mike's down for the count with it again. This morning I'm up at 5am coughing my brains out and now I felt like shit AGAIN! My next step is to lysol the whole place to get rid of germs. We're down to separate hand towels, no drinking out of the same glasses, you name it. I hope things start turning around.

Work stays about the same, but gets just a tad worse with each meeting. I don't even feel like talking about it anymore. Same shit, different pot each day.

I agree with Mike L. that there is diddly on television. I can only watch Thirteen Days so many times before I feel like I was AT the crisis. I watched an excellent biography on Queen Noor of Jordan, as well as one on the Queen Mum. Both very amazing ladies. Caught the Osbournes last night. It's not as good as last season, but still worth watching. Ozzy was in tough shape in last night's episode. I wonder if he was self medicating?? I love Ozzy, but you can't help feeling bad for the guy. He's really taken Sharon's cancer hard. And Jack and Kelly are brats!